Caregiver Guide
Paying for Senior Living
An overview of the most common ways families pay for senior care — including VA benefits, Medicaid, long-term care insurance, and private pay.
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Cost is one of the first concerns families have when exploring senior care options. In South Carolina, assisted living typically ranges from $3,000 to $6,000 or more per month depending on the community and level of care. Memory care is generally higher.
The good news is that there are multiple ways to pay — and most families use a combination of sources. Understanding each option will help you plan more effectively.
Private Pay
Most common starting point for assisted living
Private pay means using personal assets — savings, retirement accounts, Social Security income, pension, investment proceeds, or the proceeds from selling a home. Most assisted living communities are private-pay facilities, at least initially.
- Social Security and pension income can often cover a portion of monthly costs
- Home equity is frequently used — either through a home sale or a home equity line
- IRAs, 401(k)s, and other retirement accounts can be drawn on
- Some families use life insurance policies with long-term care riders
Long-Term Care Insurance
Valuable if your loved one purchased a policy earlier in life
Long-term care (LTC) insurance is designed specifically to cover costs associated with assisted living, memory care, and in-home care. Policies vary significantly — in daily benefit amounts, elimination periods (like a deductible measured in days), and total lifetime benefits.
- Review the policy carefully — coverage limits, daily benefit amounts, and inflation adjustments vary widely
- Most policies have an "elimination period" (typically 30–90 days) before benefits begin
- Benefits are triggered when a person needs help with 2 or more activities of daily living, or has a cognitive impairment
- File a claim as early as possible — the process can take weeks
- Work with a benefits coordinator at the senior community to help navigate the claim
VA Benefits (Veterans)
Potentially significant financial aid for eligible veterans and surviving spouses
The U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs offers several programs that can help cover senior care costs. The most impactful for assisted living is the Aid & Attendance benefit.
Aid & Attendance (A&A)
This benefit provides monthly payments to veterans (or surviving spouses) who need assistance with daily activities. As of 2025, the monthly maximum is approximately $2,300 for a veteran, $1,478 for a surviving spouse, and $2,727 for a couple — though actual amounts depend on income and net worth.
- Available to wartime veterans (service during a war period, not necessarily in combat)
- Surviving spouses of eligible veterans may also qualify
- Net worth limits apply — consult a VA-accredited claims agent or elder law attorney
- The application process can take 3–6 months; apply early
Medicaid
Available for those who meet income and asset requirements
Medicaid is a joint federal-state program that covers long-term care costs for those who qualify financially. In South Carolina, Medicaid can cover nursing home care and, through certain waiver programs, some in-home and community-based care.
- South Carolina has strict income and asset limits for Medicaid eligibility
- Most assets (other than the primary home and one vehicle) must be "spent down" before eligibility is reached
- There is typically a 5-year lookback period for asset transfers — consult an elder law attorney before transferring assets
- SC Community Choices Waiver provides Medicaid funding for in-home and some community-based services
- Most assisted living facilities in the Myrtle Beach area are private-pay only — confirm Medicaid acceptance before applying
Other Options
Senior Care Bridge Loans
Short-term loans designed to cover senior care costs while waiting for a home to sell or a VA/Medicaid application to be approved. Interest rates are higher than traditional loans, but they can bridge a critical gap.
Life Settlement / Viatical Settlement
If your loved one has a life insurance policy, it may be possible to sell it for a lump sum payment — sometimes significantly more than the surrender value. This requires careful consideration and professional guidance.
Family Contributions
Some families pool resources among siblings or adult children to cover care costs. Clear documentation and legal agreements can help prevent conflicts later.
Work with the Right Professionals
Paying for senior care is complex, and the stakes are high. We recommend consulting with an elder law attorney and/or a financial advisor who specializes in senior care planning before making major decisions about assets or benefit applications. Many senior communities also have financial counselors on staff who can help.
Payment Options
- Private Pay
- Long-Term Care Insurance
- VA Benefits
- Medicaid
- Bridge Loans & Other
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